Sometimes being who you are is being chosen by yourself to be awkward in front of others. But still, pretending something you aren’t is way complicated and stressful than we ever imagine. We pretend a different image and call life, “how hard is it to live in your own shoes”.
01. Stop comparing and start understanding
Comparing yourself, or another person with someone else’s performances will end up making you absorb a complete image of another into yourself? This strongly hides your own self under a coat of something you aren’t. Finally, you will be stressed and worried about the missing person within, and start complaining life to be bitter. Understand your ins and outs, play the honest role.
Don’t let the world change your smile instead change the world with you own smile.
02. Stop trying to catch the perfections
What is perfection? Are there anybody who reached it? Yeah, they pretend their life is perfect, but no life can be compared to each other’s. Because all the lives move in their own stories and parameters. Whereas perfection doesn’t sound a fair observation over one another’s stories, still people select to point out “she lives a perfect life”, while we all go through shit.
Open up. Fear not to be imperfect, fear to be perfect. Because perfect lives doesn’t really happen in real.
03. Be unstoppable
Well, being limited to some believes or myths in the society could put you into a frame where your wings would be caged. Get out and fly, there’s a whole sky awaiting to get you. Explore and be unstoppable.
04. People will judge you anyway
Fear not to go out and be the person you are. Let not any judgement by others ruin your headway to your own destinations. Good or bad, people will judge you anyway. So why waste time thinking of what others might think? Spend that exquisite time for your journey and get crowned!
05. Collect practise not just knowledge
Engage your life to its challenges. Don’t listen and learn. Do, go wrong, get damaged and then learn. The outcome of experience in the practise of life will get you far more in the collection of knowledge than that of what you get from an advice. Trust me, the more you fail the far you start seeing.
06. Identify yourself
As long as you can appreciate another you could fight over your demon. You will realize the bad in you and supress to be the good. Not always the good will be praised and kept all day, still, you will have the control of yourself. Most importantly you’ll know yourself better, before studying another.
There’s no duplicate of you that exists, so try not to hide her forever by mimicking another. It will be like you hindering yourself.
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